Is there a rabbit still in it? For this, put on a blindfold and have one of your partners tie your knees to your wrist (gently and with slack to rock around and still enjoy a reasonable range of motion). This should give you an understanding that although we are different sexes, we are still human and still are in many ways the same. There are a lot of things in it that were added for dramatic effect in terms of just it being a movie. In the world of sex toys, teledildonics have gotten a lot of buzz. Meaning, we tend to want to be treated as good as we treat other people.I think that one thing alone would stop a lot of the problems we have. Actually, I think when we first did it, funnily enough I played a piece of opera music or something, I can_t remember, on location.